Showing posts with label Sisters. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Sisters. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 24, 2012

Halloween Pen Pals

Cal came up with this idea himself! In our weekly perusal of the Target dollar aisle for fun goodies, Cal made a comment about sending presents to his cousins Carson and Brandon. He is really into sharing lately, and I want to encourage him in that characteristic, so I said, "Okay! Let's mail some Halloween goodies to your cousins." We bought a bunch of little knick knacks from the dollar aisle, including a Halloween memory game, stickers, and some rainbow-scratch paper ghost ornaments. Cal was delighted when we went to the post office to send the packages, and I admittedly had a hard time keeping the secret until my sis and sister-in-law called to tell me the boys had received their presents.

But the best surprise came about a week later, when Cal received not one, but two packages in the mail.   

 Brandon and Carson sent him toys, decorations, even socks. Here's Cal putting up his new Halloween gel-clings:


 Cal was excited about putting a felt sticky face on the pumpkin in his room.

 And he LOVED this green monster claw; he took is everywhere with him.
We'll have to keep the tradition going and send holiday packages year-round. Cal loved picking out the presents for his cousins. Hooray for pen pal cousins! It makes me happy that they'll know each other when we get together for the holidays.

Friday, May 13, 2011

Sisters




I have a lot of reasons to be grateful for my sisters. Growing up in a family with 4 girls was a wild ride: lots of hair and make-up and clothes, lots of fights an
d taking sides, lots of laughing and inside jokes and secret languages. I have a lot of memories of my sisters, good and bad.
(Hannah & Rachel -- 2002, 2009)

I don't really know how it happened, but I feel like I have a very good relationship with each of my sisters. During my college years, I was afraid this wouldn't be the case. Meredith and I will always be close, at least in my mind, because of the small age difference between us; it seems like we've always been, and continue to be, in the same stage of life. Now, with baby boys under a year apart, it feels safe to assume we will always have reasons to talk and relate to one another.

But it's different with younger siblings -- I didn't want to be the distant "aunt" that was married before they could get to know her, who always lived away from home.

I don't know why, but it hasn't turned out that way. My sisters and I talk on the phone and facebook each other. When we get together, we tease each other and share secrets. We berate each other about various offenses, but defend each other vehemently against anyone else. I'm grateful my college fears about our relationships have not come true.




Tuesday, November 23, 2010

Here's what happened:


Hannah and my mom were in Bakersfield, California for a Redlands East Valley High School band competition. After the competition, the whole band went to a place called Jon's Incredible Pizza to have a big party from 11pm to 2am. Ms Glass, the band director, did everything right: there were probably 40 adult chaperones present, and the kids were actually "locked in" at the restaurant. They'd rented out the whole place, so it was just band members and chaperones inside, and the kids had to be "cleared" to leave. That is my understanding. I think Ms. Glass took every precaution.


So at about 1:00am, my mom went back to the hotel to go to sleep. Around 2:00am, the band started coming home to the Clarion hotel across the street. When they got to the intersection, the chaperones started taking the kids across the street in smaller groups. The intersection had a signal light and a crosswalk.

This is a map of the accident location. The kids were crossing the street after having a party at Jon's Incredible Pizza. They were heading toward the Clarion.

A band member named Julia told us that she was walking about 5 feet in front of Hannah, and that she (Julia) had just stepped onto the curb (after finishing crossing the street) when she heard screeching brakes and a big thump. Then she turned and saw the car drive away. So Hannah and Zach were almost done crossing. The person who hit them was running a red light (which had been red for quite a while). Other band kids said that Hannah was launched from the impact.


From what I understand, Zach (who later received 80 stitches on his head) got up immediately and stumbled around in shock and confusion before sitting on the curb.


Conrad & Sally Lucero were with Hannah within seconds, and so was Tracey (a nurse). In the next minute, Ms. Lucero had run to the Clarion to call my mom from the lobby.


When my mom got the call, she was told to come to the Lobby, because there had been an accident. Mom says she didn't really understand what "accident" meant. She initially thought it was some sort of accident in the lobby--like someone falling down stairs, or tripping. She'd fallen asleep in her clothes, so she was out of the room in seconds. When the elevator doors opened after reaching the lobby, my mom saw the entire band holding hands in a circle, praying. (Se cries every time she talks about that, now). That's when she knew it was bigger than shed first thought, and that it was Hannah who was involved.


Mom says that someone (a man) put a coat on her (it was pouring rain outside). Thank you to whoever that was.


Ms. Lucero took her arm and led her outside, and talked to her the whole way to the intersection, prepping her for what she'd see when she got there. Thank you Ms. Lucero, for being there for my mom in that awful moment. Mom said she (my mom) must've kicked into adrenaline mode. When they reached the intersection, Hannah was lying in the street. The ambulance had just arrived, and the EMTs were cutting Hannah's clothes off. Hannah was fighting them big time (which is apparently very common with head trauma), so my mom kept saying, "Hannah, you gotta let them do this. Let the EMTs help you."


The road is four lanes on either side. At 2am, my mom said it wasn't very busy. It was raining.

The EMTs loaded Hannah into the ambulance, and my mom said, "Hey! Can I come in the ambulance?!?"

The EMT guy yelled, "Get in!"

Mom turned to Ms. Lucero and said, "Please bring my stuff." and then jumped into the ambulance (passenger seat, not the back) and they shut the doors.


Driving to the hospital, mom said that she could hear Hannah fighting them on everything (there was a little window, which was open, between the driver area and the back. Mom was trying to call out comforting things to Hannah, but doesn't know if Hannah heard/understood her at that point.


They arrived at Kern County Hospital, and a team of people were waiting for them. My mom watched for about 30 minutes, then asked for a phone to call my dad (she didn't have anything with her -- no cell phone). After two unsuccessful tries on the house phone, she called Rachel's cell phone (who ALWAYS picks up), and Rachel ran down and woke my dad. They started calling the rest of us at around 6:00am.

Hannah was transfered to Loma Linda Hospital in an ambulance later that same morning/afternoon. She was in the Pediatric Intensive Care Unit, until they told her last night (Monday night) that she was stable enough to be moved to Basic Care.


Hannah has a skull fracture that runs from the top of her head to just below/behind her right earlobe. She was leaking CSF behind her ear, but the Loma Linda Pediatric Neurologist handled it. (My mom was the one who saw the area and asked about it, and then the neurologist was called in immediately.) He found a piece of glass embedded under the skin, and stitched up the area. It's under control now.

Her skull fracture has set itself naturally. Normally, if an entire section of the skull is dislodged, they staple it into place. But because Hannah's skull is still intact all around the fracture, she won't have to have staples, and the skull can heal just how it is.


She had some bleeding on the brain, and some air beneath the fracture, but both were to a small enough degree that the doctors didn't feel it was a danger to her.


Her tibia on her right leg was snapped in half. (That's where they think the car initially struck her.) At first, the doctors thought she may have to have surgery to put in a metal plate on the tibia, but they decided they could just set the bone. They set it Monday morning, and said that Hannah was very tough during that process. They gave her a lot of morphine for the pain.


She has a bruised lung, but no bleeding. That will heal on its own. They're giving her antibiotics to fight off infection.


Probably the scariest part visually was her face: HUGE gashes in the soft tissue of her face. Very gorey, and very deep. My dad was a MESS about that, but he's doing much better. Brother Andreason from church, a plastic surgeon, was EXTREMELY helpful in choosing the surgeon for the job. My parents are very grateful to him. The reconstruction surgery occurred Sunday night. Hannah has 300+ stitches in her face. It looks much better now. She looks just like Hannah.


We've all been able to visit with her, but she is sedated and sleeping most of the time, and when she is awake, she is completely exhausted (too tired to open her eyes or speak), nauseated and dizzy.


Thank you everyone for your thoughts, well wishes, prayers, meals and helpfullness. My parents are very grateful. We are ALL very grateful.

Sunday, February 21, 2010

Ode To Girl Scout Cookies

You have to read this. My little sister Hannah wrote this poem---why is it so applicable to my life???




Ode To Girl Scout Cookies



Heaven sings

Your grateful praise

Your graciousness and mercy

Succoms us all


Such sweet amazingness

Titans bow to

A girl in a green vest

Your tasty dictatorship overpowers


Is it your lemonades?

Or you Caramel of Awesome?

That lures me

To a delicious grave


Grant me another

And I will sell my soul

For a box

Of Fudge Patties


Friday, April 24, 2009

Graduation

Yay for graduation!!! This is the whole group who came to celebrate with us after commencement. Elder Nelson and President Uchdorf spoke to the graduates and their comments were beautiful! Just a few highlights:

President Uchdorf instructed us never to waste our time. He said that time is the only resource that is divided fairly between every man, and how we use it is an indication of our character. No one has more or less time in a day than anyone else, and we must spend our time wisely, in the service of others, in gaining education, in helping those around us.

Elder Nelson told a beautiful story about faith. Years ago, he and many of his colleagues were attending a volunteer medical conference in a remote village in Mexico. Suddenly, one of their friends, and a fellow doctor, began bleeding without warning. Even though the room was full of doctors, they had no equipment, and were helpless to apply their medical training to assist their friend.

Elder Nelson and the other doctors prayed to God and gave the man a blessing, and the bleeding stopped.

The lesson, he said, was that we must always trust the Lord, not ourselves alone, to handle what life gives us. The doctors in the room had done their part by studying and preparing, but when they found themselves in a helpless situation, they turned to God, and God healed the bleeding man.

Both of the speaker emphasized how education is a righteous ambition, and is made powerful when combined with a humility toward God, and with faith that He will direct you in using your education to better the lives of the people around us. BEAUTIFUL!!!

Graduation was wonderful -- and I am so happy to be done with my Master's!!!!


Wednesday, April 22, 2009

Gillian's Baby Shower



Last week, all of our Utah-based Richey girl cousins got together for Gillian's baby shower. She is due in three weeks and is having a little boy. We are so excited for her!


Lindsay, another cousin (and Gill's sister-in-law) hosted the party and it was delicious...I mean wonderful! Here are some of the treat we got to devour:









Another highlight was getting to hold Lindsay's new little baby, Skylar Jane...

I think the following picture may be my favorite:





This is my sister, Meredith, holding the new baby. Welcome, Skylar!